The Wang Family Concert has been a family tradition since 1993, inspired by the Chinese literati tradition of 琴棋书画—music, chess, calligraphy, and painting. At our three-generation family gatherings, we play the zither and piano and recite poetry in both Chinese and English. My American-born son recites in Chinese, while I recite in English. It is our family 雅集—an elegant gathering in the spirit of ancient Chinese literati, where family and friends came together for poetry, music, art, and sometimes flowers.
Another traditional ideal I love is 琴心剑胆—a gentle, cultivated heart joined with the courage of a swordsman. I see something of that in my son. He practices kung fu with the sword, yet he also sits at the piano and plays Chopin. To me, strength and refinement do not have to be opposites.
When I was growing up in China, access to the outside world was still a luxury, and I tried to teach myself English beyond the limited opportunities available at school. Years later, raising children in America brought the opposite challenge: how to keep them connected to Chinese language and culture. That is why we chose to recite poetry in our second languages.
I’m happy that my son grew up in America but speaks Chinese fluently and even writes poetry in Chinese. For us, the concert is more than a family performance—it continues a literati family tradition and passes language, culture, and memory from one generation to the next.
Watch the Wang Family New Year Concert on YouTube